Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Act like a Lady, Think like a Man


Ladies, have you ever wondered why your man never listened to you while you were venting? Fellas, ever wondered why women try to figure you out? Steve Harvey’s “find out about men,” explains it all.

Act like a Lady, Think like a Man, is the debut book for comedian and actor, Steve Harvey. Exposing his thoughts and expertise on why men do what they do, Harvey reminds women that they need to stop doing what they do; stop expecting the best and nothing less and how to handle their men and get their men where they want them. “I’m not an expert on relationships. I’m an expert on manhood,” Harvey said on the Tyra Show.
“I’m going to tell you the secrets—the real deal about men, the things we wish you knew about us,” Harvey wrote.

Released this past January, co-writer, Denene Millner displays the thoughts women think while Harvey presents how men act and their thoughts. Giving you the mind-set of a man, why men do what they do and the playbook: how to win the game, these three sections will give women all the details, reasons and opinions from a male perspective. “Too many women are clueless about men; men get away with a whole lot of stuff in relationships because women have never understood how men think,” Steve wrote.

In hopes of empowering the insecure and clueless woman, Harvey discusses intimacy and commitment. “The Ninety-Day Rule,” informs women how to get the respect they deserve. As women, having an abstinent relationship with a man for at least three months (90 days) will show the seriousness of the relationship and the respect the man should and will show for you if he is serious. “A directive like that signals to a man that you are not a plaything—someone to be used and discarded,” Harvey wrote.

Titled Act like a Lady, Think like a Man, as Harvey gives his advice to women and believes they can continue to be the lady they are, but instead of uninformed and naïve reasons asto why their relationships turned in the wrong direction, think like a man so you won’t be the victim of inexperienced and unknowledgeable wrongdoings in your relationship; “Catch and keep your man.”

Harvey writes additional questions women “have always wanted to know,” at the end of his book. Giving women the opportunity to open their eyes and see the real-ness of men. Recent appearances on the Oprah and Tyra Banks Show have accumulated his popularity and allowed women their chance to “Act like a lady, think like a man.”

As New York Times #1 Bestseller, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is the single, dating and married woman’s help book. Those seeking love and a clearer outlook on their man, this is the book for you!

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