Chris Brown - Rihanna Saga

So, of course I've had a problem with this Chris Brown - Rihanna situation/allegations since its happened. As a female, who has never been abused, physically, emotionally, verbally, you're right..I have no idea what it's like nor do I have a clue about what it feels like. As a DISCLAIMER I may sound like the Devils' Advocate and contradicting, but I have reasons to believe it and reasons NOT to believe it.

Everyone is right..no man should put his hands on a woman, that is right! Before the police documents were exposed, I tried to piece together reasons why Chris Brown was innocent. To me, he doesn't seem like that type that would abuse someone. (I do not know Brown personally, but he just doesn't seem like it).

When I first heard, the LA police department was looking for Chris Brown, but for what? What happened? Then, it came out that the female was Rihanna and she had called the police on Brown. For what? Then, it came out that supposedly Brown had beat Rihanna, the lamborghini he was driving may have been scratched a little, bruises were unknown at the time. No REAL, credible details were given. Finally, everyone (thw whole world) got it into their heads that Brown had beat Rihanna, bit her, punched her and so on. Really? Where is this information coming from? So, as the investigation goes on...people from all over re-enact the fight, the argument and whatever they do. Very entertaining and hilarious. Talk show hosts, Tyra, Oprah, 106 & Park discuss the issues of domestic violence, abusive relationships, etc.

Finally, the REAL police report comes out. And the tape above is from the real police report. So, everyone believes the police report and other credible sources. Which, one should. And people watched Brown walk in and out of court and heard his case get pushed back to April 6th.
Me, personally, at first I was like "he did not hit her!" Then, I turned to disliking Rihanna because it came out that this situation wasn't the first time he beat her. So, I'm questioning why is it just now coming out? She obviously allowed him to beat her because it wasn't the first time. Then what really turned me cold about her was that she claims she will not testify against him!! Well, then why sit here and press charges if you don't want to testify against him? Cause you love him? NO...either you will testify or you won't. If you choose not to, here you are, ruining this young man's career, on top of yours (because people see you took him back and that you aren't testifying against him) because the situation escalated and he made threats. Which, if he abused you before, he probably threatened you as well; traits of an abuser. So, if she feels that way, she shouldn've put the situation out there like she did. That's how I feel and I feel she doesn't care about her career or his career.

I also think, the way the so-called police report went, which who knows where the cop received the details from, Rihanna? Could've been a bit exaggerated because I don't know and can't picture how all these actions could've happened while Brown was driving. It doesn't seem possible. But, then again it can. So, I don't know. Like many have said, no on will ever know the details to why the altercation occurred, what really happened and what's is currently going on. But, of course I have more feelings about the saga from different angles and again, I kind've contradict myself, but that's due to a female perspective and a reality of how guys are.

So, I guess until more details or the TRUTH comes out, I will remain neutral about the situation and my feelings will remain the same until I find out the TRUTH (from Brown's mouth) or until something happens to prove me wrong. Til then, this saga is over-rated and makes me mad! AaaaRrRRGggGgGHhHHHhh